Let me ask you a question. When it comes to loving your children, your significant other, your best friend, or even your dog, do you love them without condition? In other words, do they have to fulfill certain demands or expectations BEFORE you’ll love them? Probably not.

For example, my love for my three children is without condition—it’s given to them regardless of their performance, intelligence, etc. This doesn’t mean I wasn’t disappointed or frustrated with them—or that I never had to discipline them—but that had nothing to do with changing how much I loved them. The love was, and still is, without condition.

Are You Truly Loving Yourself?

Maybe you grew up with a parent whose love was conditional. It just seemed like you spent your life trying to earn their love and respect—that if somehow you could just make them happy, they would finally love you fully. That’s a miserable place to be, because the love of your parents plays such a significant role in how you love yourself and others.

And that is the subject of this week’s new 5-message video series in my Life Domination Private Coaching Group. It’s called Loving Yourself, and I’m peeling back the skin on a sensitive subject that affects all of us to some degree.

You may not be engaged in self-hatred, but are you truly loving yourself? Are you saying things to yourself that you would never say to someone you love? If so, why would you do that? Why would you say to yourself something so harsh that you would never to say to someone you care about?

Loving Yourself is Not About Ego or Selfishness

Here’s the simple truth: you and I will never live a fulfilling life until we learn to love ourselves, but I’m not talking about becoming more selfish or egocentric. I’m talking about a true, unconditional love that actually transforms you into a powerful “agent of change” in this world. In fact, it will turn you into the most influential and attractive person you could possibly be!

As I always do with my weekly series, I show the first episode here on my site, so I encourage you to take a few moments right now to watch Episode 1 of Loving Yourself.

If you’d like to join the Life Domination Online Coaching Program, you can learn about it here. It’s only $19.97 per month, and that provides you access to all the videos—as well as the archives of past teaching series—as well as an invitation to a private Facebook group where the videos are shown.

The best part is that you’ll be in that private group along with me and other committed people just like you. I can’t begin to tell you how encouraging it is. You’ll receive the daily support you’re looking for to help you create your best life.


C. J.
C. J.

C. J. Ortiz is a speaker, writer, life coach, and communications consultant. His expertise in personal achievement in life and business focuses on maximizing resources in every area of life. He also has 20 years experience in branding, marketing, design, and publishing. He's also the founder of Metal Motivation: Daily Screams for Living Aggressively—a social media driven powerhouse for personal development.

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